I, Mistress Troy, will post updates here about My upcoming schedule, newly acquired BDSM equipment, toys & fetish wardrobe, and whatever else strikes My fancy.
July 24, 2017
MISTRESS TEA, DOMCON
The Mistress Tea at DomCon is a popular event and I attended this past May during DomCon LA 2017. The Mistress Tea is only an hour in duration, which is nowhere near enough time to meet and chat with all the lovely ladies in attendance. I did not even get a chance to talk with all of the women sitting at My table. Thankfully, Goddess Cleo from London took pictures, collected names, and posted it all on Twitter, a very nice reminder of the afternoon (apparently there is a useful reason for "the twitter" to exist).
The Mistress Tea flew by. The conversations in which I engaged were quite enjoyable and informative. The service was excellent. The selection of teas was exactly what I prefer and there were a few delicious refreshments offered. The featured treat was a cock cookie. I kept so busy socializing that I still had My little edible penis in hand as all the ladies made their way to the exit at the conclusion of tea time. Neither I nor My slave naturally entertain the thought of a cock in our mouths so, predictably, I commanded My slave to take the penis cookie into his mouth. He devoured it without hesitation and told Me how tasty it was. Interesting . . . but I had to rush to the next event. I later found out that the cock cookies were generously handmade for the Mistress Tea by Jewell Marceau and that they were indeed delicious. I look forward to meeting Jewell Marceau and tasting her cookies one day.
July 10, 2017
FOR FOOT FETISHISTS
I am back in New York City after a brief trip for some family events. The weather was balmy and perfect for wearing sandals and flip-flops, which exposed My lovely, pedicured feet. I will be unavailable from August 11-September 3, 2017 so if you have hopes of seeing My bare feet in person this summer, book time with Me as soon as possible.
July 4, 2017
NEW BOOTS AND MUZZLE
Happy Independence Day United States!
June 27, 2017
THE BARONESS ESSEX
During My recent stay in London, I had the opportunity to meet and conduct femdom BDSM sessions with the magnificent Baroness Essex. She is all I had imagined and expected and more. Her lush estate is a 35-minute train ride from Central London. I arrived at the secluded, ample property and The Baroness Essex and I enjoyed a lovely lunch and afternoon tea served by one of her exceptional servants. We toured the expansive yet intimate-feeling array of session rooms (including a world class medical clinic, crossdressing chambers, and well-appointed dungeon), trained and tortured some slaves and had a few photos taken. I hope to return to England soon to visit with The Baroness Essex and engage in more double-Domme sessions, and as soon as The Baroness Essex plans a trip to New York City I will announce it here. In the meantime, I highly recommend that any submissive living in or visiting London and its environs follow her protocol and book a session with The Baroness Essex.
June 25, 2017
The Gay Pride March is happening in New York City today. I hope for the day when all humans are treated and protected equally under the law. Happy Pride!
June 21, 2017
AVALON STORY COMPLETED
June 10, 2017
PURPLE PASSION NYC
My slave and I took advantage of the beautiful weather in New York City yesterday for a trek to Purple Passion (NYC’s premier BDSM, fetish clothing, and adult toy store since 1992). I ended up with these dungeon necessities: a hand-molded black leather cat-eye masquerade mask by Le Cordonnier, a 3-foot 12-plait nylon snake whip, a black suede flogger with braided strands, a silicone rubber flogger-style implement that creates an intense sensation, nipple clamps, a low-burning temperature candle, nylon rope, two spandex hoods, and Vivishine Latex Polish.
Lolita Wolf, someone I feel like I have known for years from the BDSM scene, was in the shop and we officially met for the first time. She was especially helpful and informative when telling Me about Vivishine Latex Polish. I have used Perv-o-shine for polishing and maintaining My latex for years; however, ever since Demask closed it's shop in New York City, the only way of which I know to procure this item is to order it from Germany. I have been told by two submissives that the shipping costs to the United States is approximately five times as much as the bottle of Perv-o-shine and that the liquid product often gets held up in customs. After talking with Lolita, I am hopeful that Vivishine will be a suitable -- and much easier to obtain -- alternative to Perv-o-shine.
June 7, 2017
IN NYC FOR A WHILE
I have just returned to New York City again after a short trip for a private lesson with bullwhip master Robert Dante. I am slowly catching up on e-mail and upcoming "updates" will include more about My bullwhip lesson with Robert Dante, My recent time at Avalon in Berlin, My lunch with femdom artist Sardax, My day with The Baroness Essex in England, My first time at DomCon LA, and visiting Domina Irene Boss' Complex in Orange County, California.
May 26, 2017
DOMCON LA 2017
As I state in a few places throughout My website, I am a very private and discreet Dominatrix, and I rarely leave My New York City dungeon. I do, of course, very much enjoy meeting and socializing with other Professional Dominatrixes, but that can be a challenge when trying to navigate busy session schedules and often long distances. Circumstances of this nature were a factor in the creation of DomCon by Mistress Cyan back in 2004. Among other goals and purposes, Mistress Cyan wanted to provide an opportunity for dominant women to meet, socialize, and learn from each other. While I was quite aware of DomCon from the beginning, I always had sessions booked on the dates of the annual event and, being a private person, I hesitated when it came to making plans for attending such a large conference. But inevitably, every year after this major ProDomme networking event, I would hear and read about what a positive experience it had been for all involved.
So this year, amidst several other trips on My itinerary, I commanded one of My trusted slaves to book our tickets for DomCon LA 2017. After a short stop back home in New York City between trips, My loyal slave and I met in Los Angeles and the 5-day whirlwind began. Along with meeting amazing women, My other main goal at DomCon was to attend as many classes and workshops as possible. After 22 years of executing professional BDSM FemDom sessions, I have heard, seen and "done it all" -- but, really, there is always something more to learn and experience! We are all set in our ways to some extent and I keep fairly isolated, thus I am eager to get fresh perspectives on topics I know well and explore more on subjects of which I am not so familiar. In a continuing education frenzy, I took 14 classes at DomCon and I am still digesting all the information presented and organizing My notes.
There were several ladies I was looking forward to meeting in person for the first time at DomCon. However, due to the large number of attendees and the extensive schedule of classes and events, I think I met only a third of those women, if that. I did though see lots of Dommes from "across the room" at the various array of venues. Following is a summary of the ladies with whom I spent at least a few minutes chatting.
There are ProDommes who may be more widely known than Myself, but there are few Dominatrixes around today who have been offering professional sessions for as long (or longer) than I have been. I was very happy to reunite with a few of these notable women in person after many, many years. I reminisced with Domina Irene Boss, Mistress Ariana Chevalier, and Isabella Sinclaire. I also caught up with Mistress Simone Justice who was busy hosting the Whiplr Elite Lounge throughout the convention. The Baroness is another scene icon who I have not seen in ages even though her latex boutique is less than five miles away from My Manhattan dungeon in New York City. Some other friends and colleagues I enjoyed face-to-face time with were Inga Larsson, Lady Victoria, Mistress Nicolette, SubMissAnn, and Mistress Ultra Violet who was a DomCon Guest of Honor.
I did not get a chance to meet all of the members of the DomCon Advisory Board, but I did have the pleasure of meeting these exceptional ladies in person for the first time: Mistress Cyan, Mistress Ellen, Mistress Precious, Goddess Phoenix, and Mistress Porcelain Midnight.
Over the course of the 5-day event, I also met these remarkable women for the first time: Stella Liberty, Mistress Dieve, Julie Spanks, Mistress Gabrielle, Madame Margherite, Mistress Tissa, Goddess Cleo, Miss Penelope Dreadful, Mistress An Li, Mistress Eden, Lady January Frost, Lady Desiree, and Domina Helena.
Tara Indiana is a legendary Dominatrix who I have wanted to meet for a while now. She has been around longer than I and even though we were both doing femdom sessions in New York City in the mid and late 1990's, our paths have never crossed until now. I showed up to take one of the classes Tara Indiana was presenting on the neurology of the kinky brain. The Baroness was kind enough to introduce Me to Tara Indiana and it was a pleasure to meet her and discover how kind and supportive she is as a person -- at least to other Dominatrixes. There is no doubt she is a supreme ball-buster when appropriate.
I was ecstatic to meet Sheree Rose, a trailblazing and legendary photographer, performance artist, and Dominatrix whose life partner was Bob Flanagan. Two of the earliest additions to My SM library were the DVD "Sick: The Life and Death of Bob Flanagan, Supermasochist," and the book "Bob Flanagan: Supermasochist - Re/Search People Series: Volume One." It was a privilege to talk with Sheree Rose for a few moments and to listen to her speak as part of the Legends panel at DomCon.
Between attending classes, the Mistress Dinner, the Mistress Tea, socializing, and other scheduled events, I ended up with insufficient time for shopping and exploring the vendor's booths at this year's DomCon. My slave did purchase a few items for Me from Leather By Danny, which I will highlight in an upcoming "update," and I will most certainly modify My schedule accordingly at any future DomCon's I attend.
I took very few pictures at DomCon and I will eventually post them on My website. As for "the twitter," the majority of DomCon-related photos I will tweet there were taken in the Whiplr Elite Lounge which was graciously and generously hosted by Mistress Simone Justice and Max Candy. Finally for now, if I forgot to include any ladies I met at DomCon in this "update," My apologies and do let Me know.
May 24, 2017
IN NEW YORK CITY
I am back in New York City having just returned from DomCon LA 2017. I am catching up on e-mail and editing pictures from all My recent travel. If I have not responded to an e-mail about an immediate scheduling matter, do resend as I may not have seen it yet. Check back here because I will add news and updates as My schedule allows.
May 20, 2017
DOMCON LA / DOMINA IRENE BOSS
May 14, 2017
I have not completed the extended period of travel in which I am currently engaged. I am spending time with fantastic FemDommes, meeting interesting people, training slaves in sessions, and acquiring enticing BDSM equipment and fetish attire. Continue to check back here for updates.
May 3, 2017
BERLIN AND LONDON
I have completed another stay at Residenz Avalon and it was quite possibly even more amazing than My first stay last August. I spent extended quality time with the owners of Avalon Lady Mercedes and Lady Marlon and they presided over the second trial of My slave.
I met Fernando of Fernando Berlin (custom made leather boots and gloves). I ended up with two new pairs of leather boots and two new pairs of leather gloves.
I will add more tidbits, pictures, and links here as time permits.
April 24, 2017
Belligerent males must learn their lessons.
April 22, 2017
Happy Earth Day! Do something positive for our planet today.
April 17, 2017
THIS MONTH & NEXT
I am in New York City for a few days between trips. This month and next (April and May) are unusually busy with travel for Me and the few days that I am in New York City are booked solid with a waiting list for sessions. At the time of this writing, I do have plenty of availability in late May and June 2017. Check My Calendar for more details.
My upcoming travel includes three days (May 3-5, 2017) that I am available for sessions near London. You may book a private session with Me or a double-Domme session with Me and The Baroness Essex. For more information, see below in My April 3, 2017 "Update."
My recent travels included time in a small European town where I witnessed a mindboggling sight. I came upon a group of four male workers trying to maneuver a piece of furniture into a very old building through a window. It was obvious to all (except the movers apparently) that the item was not going to fit. After watching the entertaining and perplexing scene for approximately five minutes, "Aha!," a moment of genius struck one of the males. He pulled a measuring tape out of his pocket and the crew began to measure -- furniture hanging in window. As curious as I was to know the outcome, there was a nearby beach I wanted to visit. So, I commented to My submissive at hand that 1) "these males would never make it into My stable" and 2) "if a woman was in charge, the measuring would have happened prior to moving day," and we made our way to the beach.
April 3, 2017
SESSIONS WITH BARONESS ESSEX
I will be visiting The Baroness Essex at her spectacular location outside of London in May. I will be available for one-on-one sessions as well double-Domme sessions with Baroness Essex from May 3-5, 2017.
If you wish a private audience with Me, you must book by April 24, 2017. The full tribute is required to reserve My time and is non-refundable. See My "In Person Sessions" page for instructions on how to book a session with Me.
The Baroness Essex's website: http://www.baronessessex.com
March 29, 2017
LAYERED NYLONS & NEW MR. S GEAR
My nylon fetishist told Me about a new way he saw nylons being worn -- layered. We decided to experiment. I started with Touchable stockings and a garter belt; then I covered the whole ensemble with a pair of high-gloss Cecilia de Rafael Eterno 15 pantyhose. The effect was interesting and very shiny. We plan to continue experimenting.
I have just received two items off My Gift List from Mr. S Leather, a Mercenary Muzzle and The Handler Collar & Gag. The generous and far-away gift giver sent a message, "Hopefully someone is soon 'happily miserable'..." No doubt this will be the case.
March 26, 2017
AVALON STORY - PART 2 ADDED
March 17, 2017
I have not had a chance to post an update for just over two weeks. Here are a few highlights of what has been going on:
ATLANTA, I was conducting sessions in Atlanta and I got to visit with Mistress Ayn and Mistress Ultra Violet at Atlanta Dungeon. Mistress Ayn told Me about an exciting new project in which she has been engaged and I will write more about that here later.
WASHINGTON DC, I popped into our nation's capital for extended training time with a naughty boy. I enjoyed the beautiful -- but very windy -- weather as I took in the view of The Pentagon from My hotel balcony. One of My proudest moments was when My freshly-trained boy arrived at My door with the perfect cup of hot morning tea. Often it is the simplest things that make Mistress the happiest.
PADDLE, one of My spanking enthusiasts is exceptionally talented at making wooden paddles for use on his tender tail. He presented to Me a charmingly detailed and spectacularly precise handmade Fanny Burner. His combination of skill and artistic ability is rare to find these days and should be added to the unfortunate list of dying arts. I suggested he might want to offer some of his magnificent creations for sale; however, he only constructs them for the special women who tan his hide. I am ecstatic about having more than one of his Rump Roasters in My personal collection of Attitude Adjusters.
STOCKINGS, whenever I slip into a pair of Touchable stockings, I remember how much I love the way they feel on My long silky legs. I recently mentioned this fondness for Touchable stockings to a nylon fetishist of Mine and within days a pair of Touchable nylons showed up in My mail, nude with a black thigh band and perfect for wearing while using My new wooden spanking paddle.
BLIZZARD, after experiencing a winter of abnormally high temperatures and brilliant sunny days here on the east coast of the United States, New York City was hit with what I would call a "false alarm" snowstorm last week, followed by a technically sound blizzard this week. Even though the blizzard shut down most of the region for approximately two days, one loyal and persistent submissive worked his way up the east coast via plane, train, and automobile and arrived promptly at My front door as instructed months in advance. Thankfully we found a restaurant that was open for a delicious dinner since I worked up an appetite just listening to his travel adventure.
PONY BOY, the aftermath of the blizzard in New York City included bone-chilling temperatures accompanied by endless piles of partially frozen slush to navigate. As I donned what was essentially a fleece catsuit, I decided to mount My pony boy for a quick trot around the dungeon to warm us both up before venturing outside to find a place for lunch.
E-MAIL, I am responding to e-mails as time permits. Immediate scheduling matters take priority.
SCHEDULE, be aware, April and May 2017 are more than half booked for Me.
March 1, 2017
LIMITED E-MAIL THIS WEEK
I will not be checking or responding to e-mail regularly through March 9, 2017.
February 23, 2017
March 2-5, 2017, I will be conducting sessions in Atlanta, Georgia. See My "Atlanta Sessions" page for more information.
May 3-5, 2017, I will be available for sessions with The Baroness Essex at Her spectacular Residence just outside of London, England.
All sessions must be booked prior to My departure for each location. A non-refundable deposit is required before any time will be held for you.
February 14, 2017
VALENTINE'S DAY & CHEWBACCA
A few of My favorite Valentine's Day gifts this year are from a submissive who did not try to impress Me with "unique" and "creative" ideals, but rather simply made Me very happy by sending items as described exactly on My "Gift List": Two DVD's (used, but in good condition), "Venus in Fur" and "My Mistress," a book, "The New Bullwhip Book" by Andrew Conway (also used, but in good condition), and a dark chocolate Ritter bar with hazelnuts. I hope everyone is having a splendid Valentine's Day.
Random "Star Wars" Thing: I found Chewbacca in My compost pile!
February 10, 2017
NEW STORY POSTED
February 9, 2017
SCHEDULE / NEW COLLAR / AVALON STORY
My Calendar is filling up through August 2017. You will see several blocks of "red dates" already in place. It is imperative you plan ahead when booking sessions with Me, and be aware I am becoming slower with e-mail replies as I spend even less time at the computer and more time with organized and enthusiastic submissives, slaves, and masochists.
I have recently received a stunning leather-lined iron collar from Fetters in the UK. While it would be appropriate around the neck of many in My stable, I will likely use it only with the generous and fortunate slave who got it for Me. In fact, once bolted in place it may never come off.
January 20, 2017
At the bottom of every page of My website there is a footer. It contains an "Announcements" box, a min-sized calendar, and a site map. It has always been on this version of My website. People occasionally tell Me they had no idea it was there.
January 19, 2017
AT THE DUNGEON
It has been an eventful new year so far and My calendar is full. I will not be checking e-mail regularly through February 1, 2017, and My faithful subs and slaves have already booked sessions through July 2017. Therefore it is imperative that you plan ahead when trying to attain an audience with Me.
Among many other things that are going on, I have recently received two new corsets from Dark Garden Corsets and, needless to say, I have whipped and bound and trained and tormented several members of My stable.
January 1, 2017
NEW YEAR - 2017
Happy New Year!
December 27, 2016
Due to unexpected family events over the past two weeks I have not been able to check and/or respond to e-mails and phone messages on a regular basis, nor have I been able to pick up My mail. These activities will resume at My standard slow pace over the coming two weeks.
If we have a confirmed session scheduled, we are still booked and I will expect your arrival as planned. If we are/were in the process of confirming a session or if you have requested a session and not heard back, I will get to these correspondences first.
Thank you for the holiday wishes and gifts I have received. These are all very special to Me.
December 25, 2016
CHRISTMAS AND HANUKKAH
Merry Christmas and Happy Hanukkah!
December 16, 2016
New leather platform boots for Christmas!
December 14, 2016
I will be Christmas shopping with a slave and in session, so I will not be getting to e-mail again today.
December 9, 2016
CHRISTMAS BALLS AND MORE
It's Christmas time and the balls are on display at the dungeon -- as is the equestrian wardrobe.
There are plenty of naughty and nice submissives around town this holiday season. I am spending My time with the nice ones and ignoring the naughty ones (as opposed to spanking them which would be overly generous on My part). Having said that, I am not getting to e-mail often so if you have not heard from Me it does not necessarily mean I am ignoring you. Remain patient and I will eventually get to My e-mails.
I am having an especially perfect day today because a "nice sub" helped Me to procure a pair of leather Louboutin boots I have been wanting for a few years now. Every time I thought I -- or a helpful sub -- had tracked down a pair of these leather stiletto boots in My size, it ended up being a wild goose chase. Needless to say, this did not make Mistress happy. After some persistent, extended searching and a jarring false alarm this morning, I now have a spectacular new pair of leather boots in My collection to enjoy at My leisure.
I was also informed today that two Dark Garden corsets gifted to and made specifically for Me have been shipped and are due to arrive next week.
Finally for now, as I mentioned in a previous "Update," I was in London recently. I ended up in full tourist mode and did not connect with several of the people and subs I was looking forward to seeing. Therefore, I plan to head back to London soon, possibly in Spring 2017. If you are interested in serving Me there, you may let Me know. If we do not have an established relationship, you must submit a proper "Introduction E-mail" (see My "In Person Sessions" page for instructions).
December 7, 2016
FLASH SALE AT DARK GARDEN CORSETS
I was just notified that Dark Garden Corsets is having a flash sale on their gift certificates through December 8, 2016. This is a perfect opportunity for you to get Me Dark Garden gift certificates which are a high-priority item on My Gift List. Shop now!
December 3, 2016
BUSY IN NEW YORK CITY
I am busy with sessions in New York City. December 2016 is almost completely booked; however there are still a few opportunities left for Christmas shopping trips -- but you must schedule soon if you wish to enjoy such a treat.
November 24, 2016
Happy Thanksgiving to all My U.S. subs, slaves and admirers. I am in London, England today and there are several people here with whom I had hoped to meet up. Unfortunately, circumstances did not allow for all these engagements to happen, but I plan to schedule another trip to London as soon as possible.
November 11, 2016
Two highlights for Me during this bleak election week have been double-Domme sessions with Mistress Darcy (based in New York City) and Lady Phoenix (based in Berlin). I rarely get to enjoy the treat of double-Domme sessions -- partly because scheduling is so challenging and partly because so few subs are worthy -- but when everything clicks, the experience is mind-blowing. And it just happened twice in one week! Mistress Darcy and Lady Phoenix are two spectacular Ladies and the minds of our lucky slaves are still spinning.
On another note, it is Veterans Day here in the United States. Thank you to all the men and women who have and do serve and fight for our, and specifically My, freedom to live a life without constant fear of persecution.
November 4, 2016
OLD STORY POSTED ANEW
"Slave to Mistress Troy, A Celebration of the New Millennium" was originally published on My website in 2000. Over the years, through the mysterious magic of computer and internet technology, it got lost. Slave richard recently found the original document and I have reposted it in My "Stories" section.
October 31, 2016
I love strolling amongst the ghosts, goblins, and ghouls of Manhattan during Halloween season and I did just that over the weekend. My ensemble included a pair of leather boots from Italy, Wolford Velvet 66 Leggings and a handy submissive to document events as commanded. I wish a frightfully delightful Halloween to one and all!
October 28, 2016
NEW SUEDE BOOTS
Today was a sunny and very chilly day in New York City and I had a lovely afternoon with one of My exceptional slaves. He took pictures of My new suede boots from Varda worn with My Wolford Cotton Velvet tights.
October 27, 2016
AT MY DUNGEON
I have been spending lots of time at My New York City dungeon training, disciplining, and educating slaves and subs and overall enjoying My birthday month of October. Posted here are recent pictures of some of My favorite pastimes -- whipping and bondage.
My Calendar is almost completely full through the end of November 2016, so be organized and book sessions now for the holidays.
October 14, 2016
EXTENDED CAGE TIME
At 1:30 pm today I removed a very fortunate slave from My cage after a lengthy stay of 14.5 hours. He is cleaning and preparing now for several hours of intense training, education and -- if he remains fortunate -- heavy leather and metal bondage, and possibly even Wolford tights worship. Any e-mails I send today will be very short. I am still replying to the birthday e-mails I have received and I thank everyone again who sent such warm wishes.
October 11, 2016
MY BIRTHDAY MONTH
So far during My birthday month of October, I have enjoyed many celebratory sessions and events. Therefore, as usual, I have spent almost no time at the computer. As a result My inbox is full and My "Updates" page is empty. I have posted pictures of two sexy gifts I have received -- a high gloss pair of Cecilia de Rafael Eterno 15 pantyhose and a pair of leather riding-style boots from Varda.
Thank you to those who have sent birthday wishes via e-mail and telephone. I will acknowledge all the messages as soon as I can. I have acknowledged all the wonderful and thoughtful gifts I have received. If you sent a gift and have not heard from Me, the gift has not been received. A few people notified Me of issues with Amazon.com so depending on when and from where gifts were sent, a little more time may be necessary or the tracking process should commence.
September 26, 2016
MY OCTOBER BIRTHDAY
My birthday is on October 10 and I am in the process of updating My "Gift List."
September 22, 2016
QUICK TRIP TO LAS VEGAS
I have just returned from a quick trip to Las Vegas, Nevada where a very naughty "hotel maintenance man" needed to be disciplined. Before all his transgressions come to light, I was lounging in My leather stiletto Gucci sandals, enjoying the hotel's view and some scrumptious snacks and wine. Because "what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas" though, this is all that will be revealed here.
Onto other matters, having just returned to New York City, My e-mail inbox is full and I am booked solid for the next few days. I will reply to e-mails as My schedule permits and immediate scheduling matters get priority.
My October birthday is quickly approaching and I will be updating My "Gift List" over the coming days.
September 14, 2016
NEW LEATHER BDSM GEAR
I am very excited to have these new additions to My leather bondage collection:
Procured during a shopping trip to The Leather Man in New York City with one of My favorite spanking boys: Dragon Tail Whip, Mini Braded Red and Black Flogger, Leather Gag with Velcro Closure, Leather Suspension Wrist Restraints, and not pictured here because it is being washed, a Double-Thickness Black Spandex Hood with No Holes.
Hand-delivered by one of My favorite bondage boys: from Mr. S Leather in San Francisco, Locking Leather Waist Belt, and Leather Bicep-Binder, and from Church of Sinvention in Ontario, Canada, matching Leather Lockable 3" Wide Wrist and Ankle Restraints, and Slim and Sexy Thigh Restraints. I enjoyed the opportunity to test out these black leather restraints simultaneously on bondage boy.
September 7, 2016
RECENT TRIP TO RESIDENZ AVALON
My recent stay at Residenz Avalon in Berlin, Germany was extraordinary. It was better than My slave and I could have imagined and our next trip is already being planned. My slave has been commanded to submit a written recap of our first visit to Avalon for potential publication on My website and I intend to post more as well, including pictures. However, My schedule is full so I do not know exactly when this will happen. Check back.
August 19, 2016
NO TIME FOR UPDATES
I have several pictures and "updates" to post, but I am busy with sessions so you will have to continue to patiently wait for these little treats.
As posted below: I am fully booked through mid-September 2016. Check My "Calendar" and plan now for sessions in late September and Fall 2016. I do not check e-mail and phone messages while in sessions (see My "Important" page for more detail) and when responding to messages, those concerning immediate and/or clearly stated scheduling matters get priority.
August 5, 2016
RESIDENZ AVALON, BERLIN
Lady Phoenix 's Twitter: https://twitter.com/BerlinDomina
Mistress Troy's Twitter: https://twitter.com/MistressTroy
August 2, 2016
I will not be checking e-mail and phone messages regularly through August 19, 2016. When responding to messages, those concerning immediate and/or clearly stated scheduling matters will take priority.
I am fully booked through September 12, 2016. Check My "Calendar" and plan now for sessions in late September and the Fall of 2016.
I will be conducting sessions in Atlanta, Georgia in December 2016, exact dates to be announced. See My Atlanta Sessions page and send your "Introduction E-mail" as soon as possible.
July 28, 2016
THE LEATHER MAN NYC & AVALON IN BERLIN
My trip to Residenz Avalon in Berlin, Germany is rapidly approaching and My slave and I are taking care of final details. This included a visit to The Leather Man in New York City to procure a leather hood, a leather travel collar and a leather belt on which I will holster My two new bullwhips (see "Updates" dated May 9 and July 1, 2016). Matty worked with us at The Leather Man and he is an exceptional leather-worker not to mention extremely helpful to customers of the iconic leather SM shop. He fitted My slave with hoods and collars and Me with belts, and he made modifications and alterations to our items in the on-premises leather workshop while I perused the spanking and whipping implements. Matty showed us a popular paddle made of silicone -- the Tantus Snap Strap -- that delivers a sweet sting and he pointed out a crop that he believed was the most painful spanking implement in the shop -- we departed with both. (I wrote about The Leather Man in My April 7, 2016 "Update.")
Also in preparation for our journey to Residenz Avalon in Berlin, I have been in regular contact with Lady Mercedes and Lady Marlon, the creators and Head Mistresses of Avalon. They are wonderful women and it has been an absolute pleasure to plan My upcoming adventure with them. I cannot wait to arrive at Residenz Avalon in Berlin, get My slave tucked away securely in his cell, and visit with these Ladies in person. (I wrote about Residenz Avalon in My September 12, 2015 "Update.")
July 23, 2016
It has turned out to be a very busy summer for Me. I am pleased so many individuals do as I command and plan ahead. The wise, organized, and most delightful members of My stable, as well as those hoping to gain entry, have already filled My schedule through early September 2016. You can see on My Calendar page that I have no availability left before September 6; however, you may contact Me now to book sessions for after September 6, 2016. And to you silly subs who send sloppy "Introduction E-mails" and request sessions on "yellow dates," laziness and impulsiveness are not desirable character traits. Take the time to read My website, review and understand My Calendar, and send an appropriate introduction that will not be instantly discarded.
Because My schedule is so full there has been no time to post "updates" or keep up with e-mails -- but have no doubts, you are missing out on the extraordinary experience of serving Me in person and suffering at My hands and feet. At this point, the only e-mails getting a response from Me are those pertaining to immediate and/or clearly stated scheduling matters, and acknowledgments of gifts and Tributes received. If you have sent an e-mail fitting these categories and have not heard back, do send a short reminder as My inbox is packed and messages could possibly be overlooked.
I have many pictures and updates to post. However, for now I have time to share only three photos from a recent afternoon with one of My stockings fetishists. This particular worshiper of stockings introduced Me to the Touchable brand of hosiery a few years back and I have enjoyed wearing different styles and colors of Touchable's ever since. Touchable Lingerie and Hosiery is designed and manufactured completely in the United Kingdom and I love the way the stockings feel and look on My long shapely legs. A splendid sheen was highlighted on this pair of stockings when the light hit them just right. Accompanying My stockings on this day was My Dark Garden deep-purple silk-satin corset. As My stockings fetishist was being dismissed, he blurted out, "wow, look at the gully in your back." I was perplexed by the description (and outburst) and told him to take a picture so I could see exactly what he was taking about. I quickly realized that the absence of a corset panel did indeed allow a peek at the sexy "gully" in My back created by the snug fit of My corset. I was charmed just enough by his sincere fascination, adoration and selection of words that he was not punished too severely for "sneaking a peek" in the first place.
July 13, 2016
SUMMER SCHEDULE 2016
I am almost completely booked through September 6, 2016. Start planning now for Autumn 2016 sessions with Me.
July 6, 2016
TWITTER (& SOCIAL MEDIA)
I am on "the twitter" now. For those who know Me (or who have studied My website), you are probably as taken aback by this announcement as I am by having to make it. There are many reasons why I have held off on tip-toeing into the age of social media for so long, the abridged list being:
- Lack of Time and Interest
I do not have the time for -- nor interest in -- participating in social media. I just do not get it, no matter how many times all My kind and helpful friends, colleagues and subs try to explain. If I had the extra time needed for social media, I would rather tie someone up, or hike in the woods, or tie someone up in the woods....and torment them....probably with a whip, depending on My mood. But I digress.
- Privacy Concerns
I am private person. Privacy is a precious and sacred commodity that many people do not seem to fully appreciate yet. It is a constant battle nowadays to keep your privacy from being stolen; therefore it baffles Me that people are so willing to give it away online. Once you give it away, you cannot get it back.
- Constant, Mind-Numbing Minutiae and Narcissism
99.9% of the time I do not care what anyone had for lunch. Or for breakfast or dinner for that matter. Nor do I want to see a picture of it....unless it is something decidedly unique, possibly.
Now, having shared this, I am also a successful businesswoman and as happy as I am being a powerful "dinosaur," these mighty beings did not fare so well in the end. So I am learning to navigate the tedious landscape of social media for which I have yet to develop any sort of fondness. But who knows, perhaps I too will get swallowed up like so many before Me and start posting pictures of My lunch. Or breakfast....or dinner. Until then, though, My primary use of "the twit" will be to announce "Updates" to My website (as I try to figure out exactly how the pound sign / hashtag / # works). Follow Me! Then get off your computer or your little device and go do something fun and healthy with an actual human being.
Mistress Troy's Twitter: https://twitter.com/MistressTroy
July 1, 2016
NEW 4-FOOT BULLWHIP BY LOUIE FOXX
As an anniversary gift, My slave asked whip maker Louie Foxx, bullwhips.org, to make Me a 4 foot 12 plait leather bullwhip. We discovered Louie a few months ago while searching for a skilled, reliable and scene-friendly whip maker from who to purchase a leather 6-foot bullwhip (scroll down to read more in My May 9 and April 27, 2016 "Updates.") This is My second Louie Foxx leather bullwhip and it is as magnificent as the first. The first -- a 6-foot bullwhip -- was ordered specifically for our (Mine and slave's) upcoming trip to Residenz Avalon in Berlin, Germany where there is plenty of room for cracking longer length whips. Sadly, a 6-foot whip is too long to be used safely in My Manhattan dungeon, plus it occasionally catches on My metal suspension rig. Therefore, My slave surprised Me with a 4-foot bullwhip for our anniversary last week that can easily be enjoyed in My dungeon. My new 4-foot bullwhip is braided even tighter than the 6-foot and still needs some breaking in, even after our anniversary celebration. The new bullwhip is so powerful and intense (due to expert craftsmanship) that simply "finding My spot" on slave's back was enough to shake this well-seasoned whipping aficionado and masochist to his core. From My end, it felt like I was merely tapping My slave's flesh, however from the reaction of his body and the energy that saturated the room, I knew he was near his edge. I held back on the force with which I threw the new whip, but that was OK. The lashes My slave received sent us both into an ethereal space and we basked there for quite a while.
About My whip:
June 22, 2016
LEATHER SUSPENSION HARNESS
I have started using My new Fetters Suspension Harness from Mr. S Leather and it is very exciting. I lost track of My camera soon after hoisting My sub up.
June 20, 2016
DARK GARDEN CORSETS
I did not realize quite how strong My corset fetish is until after a fitting last week with Autumn, the Proprietress of Dark Garden Corsetry in San Francisco. I ordered three new corsets when I visited Dark Garden last Fall using a combination of gift certificates and cash gifts. These new corsets arrived during the holidays and I have been wearing two of them regularly -- a Corselette made of a black brocade fabric with a "diamond" pattern and a Cupid style waist-cincher made of red silk satin. The third corset, however, a custom fitted black leather Alexandra, needed additional alterations. Autumn and I spent some time trying to figure out the exact adjustments via phone, e-mail, and pictures which was a slow process considering our packed schedules. As good fortune would have it, Autumn's travels brought her to New York City twice over the past couple of months and we were able to perform the needed fittings in My dungeon. Along with My stunning new leather corset, I also sent three older corsets back to the shop with Autumn to be re-laced.
Autumn returned to My dungeon last week with My four corsets in tow and each one of them fits perfectly and looks powerfully sexy. Autumn and I started taking pictures of My new and newly re-laced corsets and it was something of a revelation to see so many of My corsets on display, knowing that they comprised only a fraction of My extensive collection. I currently have two specific Dark Garden corsets posted on My Gift List and after I complete a full inventory, you should expect more to be added.
For those who are unfamiliar with Dark Garden Corsetry, you can read My two "Updates" dated September 8, 2014 and November 6, 2015 (click and scroll down to date) for a little more information but briefly, Dark Garden Unique Corsetry in San Francisco is a woman-owned business that was established in 1989. They create custom and ready-to-wear corsets of the highest quality and durability. All work -- from design concept to garment completion -- is done in their Hayes Valley shop. A few of My custom-made Dark Garden corsets are over 14 years old and still look and wear like new. I do have corsets from other sources in My collection, however, the craftsmanship simply does not compare to that of the Ladies at Dark Garden.
Dark Garden designs and creates styles for males as well as females. I encourage all My sissy-maids and sluts, leather boys, cross-dressers, corset fetishists, bondage lovers -- basically everyone -- to work with Me to create the appropriate piece for your position. Autumn gets to New York City somewhat regularly and I will announce her next visit on My website so fittings can be scheduled.
Dark Garden Corsetry's Twitter: https://twitter.com/Dark_Garden
Autumn Adamme's Twitter: https://twitter.com/MissDarkGarden
June 13, 2016
MISTRESSES LUNCH AND MORE
I am back in New York City and about to dive into a pile of e-mails and paperwork. This does not mean, however, that I will get to all e-mails today....or even this week. If I have missed a message about an immediate scheduling matter, you may send a polite reminder. Otherwise, continue to patiently wait or -- better yet -- book time to see, serve and/or suffer for Me in-person (or schedule a phone session).
My recent adventures included a trip to Atlanta where I enjoyed a delicious lunch with Mistress Ayn and Mistress Ultra Violet. It is a pleasure to spend time with both of these women, and they are two of the most dependable Pro-Dommes with whom I have ever worked. Unfortunately, I cannot speak so highly of My experience with the submissives, slaves and masochists in Atlanta and, as a true dominate female, this is disheartening. I will continue to visit Atlanta every few months indefinitely and I hope that more subs and sluts will start to shine and prove themselves worthy of My time and attention. For starters, read My website, follow the instructions, and plan ahead. I have spent a substantial amount of time, energy, and money creating a website that details what you can expect with Me and what is required of you. Every session is a special event for Me and it should be for you as well, treat it as such. Do not be a pathetic slug who wastes My time because you have no personal discipline.
Meanwhile, in New England, a praiseworthy submissive who has carefully studied My website had the perfect gift waiting for Me during a brief stopover in New York City -- a bottle of Pratima's Anti-Stress Aroma Oil which was marked as a "high priority" item on My "Gift List." The oil offered a nice little respite during various modes of often tiring transportation last week. This submissive also sent a note of apology for not seeing the "no gift wrapping" instructions on My website before ordering the gift. Fortunately, Pratima uses eco-friendly wrapping; however, the girl has learned her lesson and will get it correct next time. Discovering submissives who are so attentive, thoughtful, appreciative, and detail-oriented is truly a pleasure, and it is satisfying to know that I do not yet have to permanently shut the stable doors.
After My brief pass through the dungeon last week, I headed north to The Berkshires for a bullwhipping workshop with master whip cracker Robert Dante. Just prior to the workshop, though, I received notice that it had to be canceled due to flooding of the venue after torrential rain storms hit the area. So, I found Myself instead in the Norman Rockwell Museum in Stockbridge, Massachusetts. My eye was caught by Norman Rockwell's illustration of a Mommy spanking a boy on the cover of a "Saturday Evening Post" dated 1933. I of course was tickled to see this image since it is My belief that if all naughty boys received proper spankings, the world would be a much more civilized place.
Before returning to New York City, I spent some time lounging on the porch (which is the "social hub") of the historic Red Lion Inn in Stockbridge, Massachusetts. I also stopped in a shop that sells only one-of-a-kind items handcrafted by artists who live within the region for the most part. I saw two stunning pens made by a Massachusetts artist, one of which I now want. I think the shop's proprietor said the pens were made of pine burl found in in the surrounding Berkshires woods. Rushed at the time, I quickly snapped a picture and grabbed a business card so I could track down the pen at a later time. One-of-a-kind items are difficult to include on My "Gift List" for what I think are obvious reasons. If you would like to get this unique, practical, and truly one-of-a-kind gift for Me, the cost with shipping is $200, and you should contact Me to arrange the details.
June 3, 2016
I will not be checking or responding to e-mail regularly through June 13, 2016. Immediate scheduling matters and proper "Introduction E-mails" will get priority.
June 2, 2016
A hardcore nylons fetishist was extremely fortunate this week considering how improper he had been at "the office." To prepare him for disciplinary action, I tied him to a metal post with stockings that had been worn by Myself and another stunning "colleague." I wrapped fragrant stockings around his face and head, one of which slid gently into his mouth as he attempted to speak. He was allowed to admire -- but unable to touch -- the sheer, chocolate colored nylons I wore with a white retro-girdle and garters. The sheen of the stockings was mesmerizing as I sat and adjusted My long, shapely legs, and the swoosh of nylon rubbing against nylon was overpowering. He might have collapsed to the floor had he not been securely bound to the poll. He was unfocused as his infractions were addressed and he must return for further "job training."
May 31, 2016
DOUBLES WITH MISTRESS AYN, ATLANTA
Make note, you must book by 7:00 pm (Eastern/NYC/Atlanta time zone) on this Friday, June 3. I will not be able to schedule any new sessions in Atlanta for June 2016 after this date and time.
May 27, 2016
RECENTLY RECEIVED GIFTS
I recently received a Fetters Suspension Harness from Mr. S Leather and a book, "Voluptuous Panic: The Erotic World of Weimar Berlin" by Mel Gordon. I hope to find the time to finish reading the book before My upcoming trip to Residenz Avalon in Berlin, Germany.
Now, I need a new computer monitor, 20-22 inches with built-in speakers to help with My administrative tasks. I have added one to My Amazon.com Wish List; however, I am not overly concerned with getting that exact model, just something with similar specifications. Hand-delivered is always a nice touch.
May 9, 2016
NEW LOUIE FOXX BULLWHIP
I received My new 6 foot 12 plait leather bullwhip from Louie Foxx last week (see April 27, 2016 "Update"), and it is breathtaking....in many ways. It truly is something special to behold the result of such fine craftsmanship, especially in this day and age when finding almost anything completely handmade by a single artisan is rare. Even though My small Manhattan dungeon is not the ideal setting size-wise to wield a 6-foot bullwhip, I was keen to start breaking in My new acquisition. With willing subject at hand and adrenaline flowing, the target was prepared and the lashes commenced. The expertly-tight braiding of the whip was stiff and slightly awkward at first, but with every throw and "crack," the feel of My new whip grew more supple and vibrant. Knowing that an outdoor location was essential, I begrudgingly put down My new bullwhip, and I exuberantly completed the whipping with shorter selections from My whip collection.
May 4, 2016
ATLANTA IN JUNE 2016
I will be conducting sessions in Atlanta, Georgia on June 6-8, 2016. See My "Sessions in Atlanta" page for information.
May 3, 2016
OWK BOOTS & PETS
I took one of My pets out for a walk the other day. This particular pet is so obedient that he was allowed off his leash for a little while. The park we went to tends to be muddy so I wore My "OWK boots" -- these are the sturdy black leather boots that My slave presented to Me prior to our departure for The OWK (Other World Kingdom) in 2000. They are the same boots that I wore in the Slave Hunts at OWK and they have held up quite well over the years. I sat and enjoyed the cool, sunny day as My pet sniffed around the park.
April 27, 2016
WHIP MAKER LOUIE FOXX
In preparation for our trip to Residenz Avalon in Berlin, Germany this summer, My slave wanted to get Me a new bullwhip. After extensive research, we decided to contact whip maker Louie Foxx in Washington state about a black 6 foot 12 plait bullwhip, and what an excellent decision that was. Louie was quick to respond and has been absolutely wonderful to work with. He is completely professional, very knowledgeable and he is a really nice person. Louie finished My new whip in less than a week and it should arrive in My hands any day now. My slave and I are both eager (to put it mildly) to experience the new bullwhip.
Louie posted details about the progress of My bullwhip as he worked on it. You can see the postings on his website:
April 25, 2016
BALL-STRETCHERS & SHOES
My "boy from the farm" arrived at My dungeon last week with two ball-stretchers. The one he wore in -- surgical steel with a mirror finish and a weight of 1 Pound, 10 ounces -- required an Allen wrench to remove. In a rush to serve his Mistress, boy-from-the-farm left this tool on his hotel bed. To My astonishment, and with an amusing amount of struggle on his part, boy-from-the-farm managed to extricate the crucial screw from the steel ball-stretcher with a Phillips-head screwdriver I provided. The steel ball-stretcher was replaced by a blue silicone ball-stretcher, and the rest of the evening's events shall remain forever private memories between Mistress and boy-from-the-farm.
On a different day this past week, My sub and I took a leisurely stroll through My neighborhood. We stopped in the Christian Louboutin Boutique on Madison Avenue where I was surprised and elated to see the new shade of red for the upcoming season of Louboutin shoes. It is a deeper, darker tone of red that I prefer to the bright red which has been the most recent offering. I wholeheartedly agreed with My sub's observation that the available style was "very smart looking," and we quickly snatched a pair of red patent leather pumps, along with a low-heeled style for long-distance walking around the city.
While much, much more has been happening, this is all I have time to post now. Keep checking back for more tidbits.
April 12, 2016
NEW WEBSITE PAGES
April 7, 2016
HIGHLIGHTS FROM THE WEEK
Things are hopping at My dungeon. I would attribute it to Spring Fever, but the region is trying to thaw from a multi-day deep freeze. Before the unseasonable cold snap hit, a slave and I spent a most perfect day last week exploring the few remaining "mom-and-pop" BDSM and fetish shops in Manhattan. The Leather Man and Purple Passion comprised the majority of the list (I will save My thoughts on chain stores and overdevelopment for another time). The Leather Man caters primarily to the gay leather crowd and My discovery of this iconic shop many years ago had a wonderfully profound impact on My life. The Leather Man celebrated its 50th anniversary last year and has been located on Christopher Street in the West Village the entire time. This is a remarkable feat for any small business and I hope The Leather Man is around for us leather folks to relish for many more decades to come.
I am also pleased to report that Purple Passion is still in business after 20+ years. Purple Passion is New York City’s premier BDSM, fetish clothing, and adult toy store. It's focus is the Fetish S/M lifestyle and the merchandise carried is serious -- no novelties here. Hilton is the founder and owner of Purple Passion and he is a true pillar of the BDSM and fetish community. Hilton and I met though our mutual friend Mistress Venus approximately 20 years ago. I do not see Hilton often, only sporadically over the years in his NYC shop and at his vendor's booth during various BDSM events along the East Coast of the U.S.A. However, we always pick up right where we left off as if no time has passed, and such was the case again last week. Hilton and I enjoyed a relatively lengthy chat as My slave positioned himself at the appropriate distance, obediently awaiting My beck and call.
Along with window-shopping and socializing, a few staple items were procured for My dungeon: Twisted Monk hemp rope, traditional school canes in a brownish color I have not seen before, riding crop, leather and spiked bras, and Wolford and Leg Avenue stockings and tights.
Having recently returned from the Western United States, I have been inspired to wear My cowboy boots and turquoise jewelry. I snapped a picture of one boot during a cab ride with My obedient slave on our shopping day last week. So many boots, so little time....
For reasons I will leave to your imagination, I celebrated one slave's birthday not with a birthday spanking, but with an equally festive birthday back whipping.
Finally for now, along with all the BDSM action that is happening, I have been actively planning My next trip to Residenz Avalon in Berlin and Atlanta. I will post details on My website as they become available.
March 29, 2016
BACK IN NYC / SKI SLAVE
Thanks to an outstanding slave of Mine, I just had an amazing Spring Skiing trip and stay in Utah, U.S.A., where "The Greatest Snow on Earth" can be found. For those in the know, you may recognize the traditional Champagne sabering and toast atop the mountains to celebrate the transition from day to night. This particular evening's toast also included a little prayer to the Snow Goddess for fresh powder and She indulged us most splendidly.
Sadly, the majority of My ski slaves have either retired from the sport or, for various reasons, become unavailable for ski-boy duties. Thus, I am keeping My eyes open for potential ski valets. Those interested will have to work hard to earn this position and along with handling all My luggage and equipment (ski and otherwise), will be responsible for all expenses (transportation, accommodations, meals, lift tickets, professional massages, etc.) and tribute for My time away from My dungeon.
I take My skiing seriously and you should too (snowboarders are eligible). Ideally, you will ski (or board) at or beyond My skill level; however, your skiing expertise is not as important as your reliability, capacity to serve, and overall enthusiasm and positive attitude. If you love the slopes as much as I, but are unable to keep up with Me for any reason, staying bound, chained and/or locked in My suite, or fetching things from town/ski village as I ski a full day are some possible options I will consider for you. Those who can give an amazing foot massage after a day in ski boots may have a slight advantage. There is time to prove yourself before the start of next ski season (in the Northern Hemisphere).
Onto other matters, having just returned from an exhilarating ski trip where I happily avoided computers to the best of My ability, My inbox is now full of unread e-mails. I am also booked solid through next week with sessions. Therefore, I will be returning e-mails slowly, looking for immediate scheduling issues first. If you have requested a session and I do not get back to you by this Friday, April 1, you may send a short, polite reminder.
March 11, 2016
I will be unavailable for sessions through March 28, 2016, and I am booked solid with sessions March 29-April 3, 2016. I will not be checking e-mail regularly through March 28 and it is unlikely I will send any e-mails before that date. If I do, immediate scheduling matters and proper "Introduction E-mails" (see My "In Person Sessions" page) will get priority.
Plan now for April and May sessions!
March 10, 2016
MISTRESS NICOLETTE OF NYC
My lovely and amazing friend, Mistress Nicolette of NYC, has been conducting professional BDSM and foot fetish sessions in New York City for as long as I. Her stable has been full so there has not been a need for her to advertise for a while. She is currently looking to take on a few exceptional and sincere submissives and/or fetishists. I have created a page on My website for Mistress Nicolette of NYC where you can contact her directly. Although she is on My website, Mistress Nicolette of NYC has her own space and will not be doing sessions in My dungeon -- unless, of course, you wish to book a double-Domme session with us....if you were ever to be so fortunate.
Mistress Nicolette of NYC's webpage: click here
March 9, 2016
NEW STORY POSTED
February 27, 2016
Today at My Dungeon
Whip marks from almost 200 lashes. I wish more people enjoyed -- or could take -- a good, sound whipping to the back. It is an intoxicating experience.
February 22, 2016
My Upcoming Schedule
The remainder of February and most of March 2016 is booked for Me. I will be completely unavailable for sessions and not checking e-mail regularly from March 11-27, 2016. Check My "Calendar" page for My regularly updated availability.
Wise devotees planned ahead and have already booked time with Me during the coming weeks. As explained on My "Calendar" and "For My Established subs" pages, if you have a proven record of reliability, you may request a session on a "yellow date" and I will try to rearrange My schedule to fit you in. HOWEVER, if I do rework My schedule and book a session with you on a "yellow date," you will be required to submit the full tribute for the time you booked if you cancel (or try to change or "postpone") the session, regardless of how much notice is given or how long and/or well I know you.
February 11, 2016
Sardax Portrait Arrived
Today in the mail I received My first, eagerly anticipated, portrait from Sardax. You may view it on My new "Sardax" page. Included with My portrait, as is Sardax's policy, I received a signed copy of his beautiful hardcover book, "Venus in Furs, translated and illustrated by Sardax."
February 9, 2016
February 2, 2016
Sheer Nylon Outfit
A serious nylon fetishist of Mine recently presented Me with a new outfit -- sheer pantyhose, sheer bodysuit and sheer opera-length gloves. Toe-to-Chin-to-Fingertip sheer nylon, an acute sensualistic experience.
January 30, 2016
One of My subservient sluts arrived the other day and presented Me with the gift of a delectable bottle of Champagne. I immediately stored the offering for drinking at a later date. However, after having My cruel and sadistic way with this slut, I was feeling supremely generous. The trollop was commanded to open and pour My Champagne, and then allowed to share a belated toast to the New Year with Me. This minion did not need reminding that an event as rare and special as this is never to be expected.
January 27, 2016
For My birthday this past October, a long-term slave of Mine gifted Me a portrait from the world-renowned femdom artist Sardax. Since there is usually a waiting list for commissions with Sardax, work began on My illustration just recently. I am eagerly anticipating it's unveiling, which will be announced here.
The Femdom Art of Sardax: Sardax.com
January 23, 2016
First, New York City is presently in the middle of a blizzard -- as is a good portion of the Eastern seaboard of the United States -- and the region has shut down. My sessions and social engagements canceled for this weekend so I now have some time to post an "update" and reply to a few e-mails. If you do not hear from Me today, be patient, I will eventually get to all e-mails worthy of My attention and time. As always, scheduling matters -- specifically the scheduling of sessions with reliable patrons -- take priority.
Now, I was in Atlanta, Georgia last week and enjoyed the great pleasure of meeting Mistress Ayn and Mistress Ultra Violet. I found both of these ladies to be consummate professionals, discreet and lovely to spend time with -- not to mention beautiful and skilled ProDommes. We did not engage in double-Domme sessions during this visit, but perhaps that will become an option during My future trips to Atlanta. I rented space at Atlanta Dungeon for My sessions. The website talks about "Sisterhood, Community and respect for the quality of Professional Domination" and I am happy to report that I experienced all this first-hand. I was made to feel right at home as soon as I arrived at Atlanta Dungeon for a tour of the space.
I have had and used My own private dungeon and BDSM equipment for over 20 years, so renting a dungeon space is an unfamiliar experience for Me. It pleased Me immensely that My first session at Atlanta Dungeon was with an exemplary submissive who has followed Me since My DDI (Domination Directory International) days, but who has never been able to get to New York City to serve Me in person. While I did just write "exemplary submissive," that does not negate the fact that male subjects -- no matter how well-behaved and capable their façade -- are horny, mischievous creatures, the wisest of who know that it takes the right woman to tame and redirect their carnal energy toward higher purposes. This delightful devotee and I both knew that a solid caning was exactly what he needed (and received), and that was only a small part of what made My afternoon so satisfying.
I plan to return to Atlanta again in a few months and I will post information here as the details are confirmed.
Mistress Ayn's Twitter: https://twitter.com/MistressAyn
Mistress Ultra Violet's Twitter: https://twitter.com/Ms_Ultra_Violet
January 19, 2016
In New York City
I have returned to New York City, and I will post a short "Update" about Atlanta as soon as I have a moment. Other than overnight trips for sessions, I will be in New York City conducting FemDomme, BDSM sessions and catching up on e-mail through March 11, 2016. I will be unavailable for sessions from March 12-27, 2016 so keep that in mind when planning to book sessions with Me.
January 5, 2016
Schedule / Atlanta
I will not be checking or responding to e-mail regularly through January 14, 2016.
My January 2016 trip to Atlanta is fully booked and I will not be scheduling any more sessions. I will visit Atlanta again in a few months, and I will post the dates here as soon as they are confirmed. You should start planning now if you wish to see and serve Me the next time I am in Atlanta.
January 3, 2016
Recently Received Gifts
Although not glamourous, administrative work is a large part of a professional Dominatrix's life. It is as necessary and as important for a Dominatrix in maintaining her business as it is for any other type of professional or company, large or small. Generally speaking, professional Dominatrixes and FemDommes receive tribute (income) only for the time they grant you in person (possibly including phone and/or webcam sessions). They do not receive it for all the behind-the-scenes work, time and effort that goes into preparing themselves and their spaces for those magically wonderful session hours. This is a fact of which many clients -- even the genuinely submissive -- seem oblivious, resulting in awkward and unpleasant moments. One common example, some individuals do not book enough time with their Domme and want to linger in the dungeon or on the phone after the booked session time is over.
Then there are the exceptional individuals who truly value, respect and are grateful for the time of their Domina. They understand what a rare gift it is to find such a special relationship dynamic and they treat it like the precious gem that it is. The core of My stable is comprised of these outstanding submissives whose appreciation and gratitude I felt stronger than ever during the holidays.
I spent an enormous amount of time toward the end of December attempting to catch up on e-mails and other administrative matters. As I pecked away at My keyboard (still not getting to all the e-mails yet), gifts arrived to make My life easier, more enjoyable and happier. These were not Christmas gifts, but rather thoughtful expressions of devotion, recognition and practical servitude. These offerings included a tea maker that heats water to the perfect tea-steeping temperature within moments; a pair of fine Italian leather gloves; a show jumping crop made in England of fine plaited leather with a 925 sterling silver handmade collar (suitable for engraving); several boxes of tea from My Gift List; donations of several hundred dollars to organizations on My Soapbox and most wonderful of all, two submissives told Me they had adopted rescue dogs!
January 1, 2016
2016 is Here
Happy New Year!