About Mistress Troy
Introduction
I am Mistress Troy, a Dominatrix and female sadist in New York City. I am an intensely private and discreet woman who has been conducting professional BDSM, FemDom (Female Domination) sessions since 1995 and living the "lifestyle" even longer. Although well-traveled, English is the only language in which I am fluent. I maintain My own personal and exceptionally well-appointed dungeon in a residential apartment located on the Upper East Side of Manhattan. The surrounding neighborhood is upscale, sophisticated and discreet, and every aspect of My dungeon space reflects these qualities.
I am what some people consider a "Traditional Dominatrix" and/or "Classic Dominatrix."
The main purpose of this website is to find compatible submissives, masochists, servants, fetishists, bondage- and spanking-enthusiasts and/or playthings for in-person sessions and service to Me. If you are seeking any form of instant gratification, you will not find that kind of satisfaction here. I am interested in people who are adept with traditional manners and forms of communicating along with an ability to exhibit patience. If you are serious about booking a session with Me, you must carefully read Our First Session and follow all of the instructions contained therein.
I am very particular regarding My likes and dislikes and I operate My Domain based on My specific personal preferences and fetishes. I structure sessions based on the dynamic that exists between Myself and each individual allowed to serve and I will not consider a session unless we share compatible interests. Your experience level is not as important to Me as the following:
You must be a genuine submissive, masochist and/or fetishist who displays a sincere desire to please, serve, amuse, obey, and surrender all control to Me. In addition, you must demonstrate a proper understanding of Mistress/submissive protocol.
If the chemistry exists, I enjoy scene partners ranging from docile submissives to hardcore masochists. I have a deep affinity for a wide variety of BDSM (Bondage/Discipline, Dominance/Submission, Sadism/Masochism) activities. I will discuss, encourage, and push your exploration of almost any related topic as long these essential conditions exist:
You will maintain a respectful demeanor and always follow My instructions and adhere to My rules and policies as stated throughout My website as well as in any written or verbal communication we exchange.
My manner is extremely dominant and controlling, yet may come across as surprisingly warm and nice when I am with someone who is not an ill-mannered, unreliable creature (people of this ilk will be quickly dismissed from My world). I do not scream or yell. I am an adrenaline junkie and crave intense scenes, while I simultaneously strive to have fun. I do laugh which is a sign that I am enjoying Myself; do not let My laughter or seemingly kind nature confuse you into thinking that proper protocol has been suspended.
I especially enjoy administering corporal punishment -- from a playful smack-of-the-hand to a welt-raising caning. I have a full arsenal of spanking implements, a partial list of which can be found on My Dungeon & BDSM Equipment page. While My space is a dungeon setting, I do enjoy domestic-oriented scenarios and discipline. I am also exceptionally fond of the traditional British school cane. There is nothing quite like the sting you feel under My cane or the energy shifts that occur during a corporal punishment encounter. I thrive off this powerful exchange. While My extreme appetite to administer corporal punishment -- especially a sound caning -- may be frightening to you, do not feel daunted by My acute desire or your possible lack of experience. I have guided many bottoms through their first exhilarating strokes of the cane and I am just as happy applying only a handful of smacks with a relatively softer implement. For those who do ache for more, rest assured, I have effortlessly dispensed over 2100 strokes and lashes in an afternoon session.
I take great pleasure in rendering you completely helpless by means of mildly-restrictive to completely-immobilizing bondage. Once you are restrained, I may engage in some of the following BDSM arts: sensory deprivation and overload, nipple and genital torture (CBT - cock and ball torture), hot wax application, temporary piercings, face slapping, mind fuck, chastity control, and fire and electro-play. My propensity towards the ritualistic, trance, meditative and healing aspects of the scene presents itself on many levels, some quite subtle. I will employ techniques that will transport you to a world of exquisite torture where you will experience heightened levels of pain, pleasure, agony and ecstasy.
I am open to hearing about your role-play ideas. However, I will not accept lengthy scripts or instructions for sessions nor will I accommodate scenarios requiring Me to memorize exact dialogue. Some of My favorite scenes have been loosely based on these relationship dynamics: Step-Mother/step-son, Warden/prisoner, physical and verbal variations of "Examiner"/"examinee," nosy neighbor stops by My apartment unannounced, and Boss/employee. Keep in mind that I am not an actress and, very simply stated, regardless of the "role-play" involved, I will ultimately take control and do what I want.
My Dungeon is distinctively furnished with custom-made BDSM devices and equipment of unrivaled excellence. A partial list of all My treasured pieces can be found on Dungeon & BDSM Equipment.
My exceptional wardrobe offers several variations of the "traditional Dominatrix" look. It is predominantly black and contains a wide array of leather and latex fetish wear. I have numerous corsets and waist-cinchers as well as a small but distinctive collection of fine and retro-lingerie, including stockings, pantyhose and tights of the highest quality. I further complement these outfits with My many pairs of classic and fetish shoes and knee-, thigh- and crotch-high boots. I am also in possession of a vintage police uniform, fetish military-style leather jackets, and riding and cowboy boots. What I wear during a session is dependent upon My mood and the particular activity, training, or discipline taking place at that time.
I am a very demanding Dominatrix. I will consistently challenge you to rise to -- and meet -- My high standards. I am responsible, reliable, clean, healthy, and extremely discreet. I will always be respectful of your time and limits and the same is expected of you.
To book a session with Me, carefully read Our First Session and submit your "Introduction E-mail" exactly as instructed.
History
BDSM is a core part of My being. A dominant controlling sadistic female is who I am as well as what I do. A confluence of circumstances many years ago led to My contemplation of offering professional BDSM sessions as a Dominatrix -- My personal BDSM toy collection and fetish wardrobe outgrew My home, I was confident that there was a larger selection and variety of submissives, masochists, and bottoms with whom to share My subtle dominance, sadistic cravings and passion for bondage. I also knew that clearer boundaries and rules within My scenes and relationships would help to address social-, privacy-, safety- and emotional-related issues.
After careful consideration and study of how I might best achieve these goals without negatively affecting my personal experience with BDSM, I began offering professional sessions as a Dominatrix. In 1995, I worked very briefly at the now defunct Arena Blaze, a woman-owned and -operated House of Dominance in New York City, before sharing a multi-room dungeon space with another highly regarded Dominatrix, Mistress Venus, for several years. Since 1999, I have enjoyed My own smaller -- yet completely private -- dungeon, and My space and practice of BDSM continues to thrive and evolve.
My professional sessions have enhanced My "lifestyle" and to this day I derive great personal pleasure from all the scenes in which I engage. I am quite discerning about who I choose to play with and I do not see people with whom I have no common interests or chemistry. I have never come close to the edge of "burn-out" because I know how to handle and pace Myself and My companions. I also believe it is extremely important to attain a mutual trust and respect in all My BDSM relationships, and I put forth great effort to develop a connection with those who see and serve Me.
Mistress Troy's first dungeon, Manhattan, NYC
Privacy & Quality
I insist upon quality sessions that are clean, safe, and satisfying experiences for all involved while providing the utmost discretion and privacy. To this end, I operate and maintain My practice as a sole Proprietrix. While a very few submissives enjoy the privilege of cleaning for Me, performing as My chauffeur and running select errands, I do not enlist the help of others for administrative and most dungeon-related tasks. This means I am the ONLY person who manages My interactions with applicants and established clients. Specifically:
No one other than Myself reads or responds to My e-mails.
I always answer My own telephone when available and personally return calls -- My telephone messages are heard only by Me.
I personally screen all applicants.
I schedule My own appointments and juggle the changes when “things happen.”
Time & Tribute Expectations
Mistress Troy screens new applicants for FemDom & BDSM sessions
BDSM is an integral part of My well-rounded and balanced life, however, I do have other interests and matters that require My attention. I am exceptionally organized and precise with My time and I expect the same from those who see and serve Me, professionally or otherwise. My days are full and booked weeks -- often months -- in advance.
To better manage your expectations, the following information will help illustrate how I operate:
When I am with an individual or involved in any other type of engagement, My attention is focused exclusively on that person, activity, or event. I do not answer or make calls nor do I check e-mails during these times (I do not use texting). You will receive the same consideration of My full attention when we are in session together -- we will not be interrupted nor will I be distracted.
Sessions in My dungeon generally run between 2-24 hours, with occasional 2 to 4-day trips when I travel to, or with, a submissive for a more intense, extended experience. Sessions alone create large blocks of time where I do not receive or return any messages. Outside of actual "session hours" for which I receive tribute, I spend My time uncompensated on physically maintaining My dungeon along with the typical administrative tasks common to any well-managed business.
I do not use text messaging, and I do not use a smartphone for e-mail (privacy concerns are one reason). Correspondence regarding scheduling takes priority. When all these circumstances are combined, there are literally only a few minutes in My average day, if that, to read and return e-mails. Therefore, it can take several days -- or even weeks -- for Me to “catch up." When time allows, I sit at My desk to respond to e-mails in a more complete and thoughtful manner. I do not request Tribute for this type of courtesy; however, you must keep in mind the following:
My Tribute is My financial income. As with anyone else, My income is how I pay My bills and purchase the necessities in life, not to mention the wardrobe, equipment and space I use for our time together. Similar to other types of professionals you may engage, you pay Tribute (also called "rates" or "fees") for the time you book with Me and the attention I bestow. I cannot accept invitations to meals, travel, or other activities without receiving Tribute for My time.
For those who want phone conversations lasting longer than 5 minutes with Me, you may book a Phone Session.