August 2026
E-MAIL PROBLEM
August 20, 2026: Due to a weird technical issue, which I blame mostly on AI, the majority of e-mails I sent from approximately August 13-17, 2026 did not get through to the intended recipients. Additionally, because it took Me 3.5 days to navigate around AI help-bots (at multiple companies) and reach a human, the problem took way too long to get resolved. Needless to say, I am still dealing with fallout from this mess. I believe I received all e-mails sent to Me during this time period, and I will respond as soon as I can. I also think the problem is fixed. However, because My schedule is full, including travel, I have had almost no time to focus on this matter, so I may be missing something.
Due to said full schedule and travel, I will be not be checking e-mail on a regular basis before September 7, 2026. I will respond to immediate scheduling matters as soon as I can. Otherwise, you should not expect to hear from Me before September 7th.
In the meantime, please, consider using Proton Mail, an encrypted e-mail service based in Switzerland, to help protect the privacy of both of us.
NEW WEBPAGE: “PHOTO UPDATES”
August 6, 2026: I keep writing here that I have no time to post "Updates" and that remains the case. I do have pictures to post from recent travel and sessions, newly acquired BDSM gear and whatnot, that are piling up. Thus, I have created a page called "Photo Updates" where I will post pictures with short captions more often than I post on this page. Nothing too graphic, of course, because the powers that be might shut Me down, but you can always go and find that somewhere else. Besides, I prefer discretion and the wonders of the imagination.
July 2026
BUSY SUMMER
July 10, 2026: This summer has turned out to be unexpectedly busy for Me and I have barely had a moment between sessions, trips, and other matters to post on My website. I am currently in New York City for a few days, trying to catch up on e-mail between engagements. Thank you to everyone who follows My instructions when contacting Me and to those who plan far ahead when booking sessions. This truly brings Me joy! I send a heartfelt "thank you" as well to those who have been sending items from My Gift List.
Until I have time to post more, here is another picture from Inana FemDom Retreat. It's Me trying to protect Myself from the intense sun and heat in Malta. Of course, there were multiple male servants to attend My umbrella and other desires off camera.
INDEPENDENCE DAY - 250 YEAR ANNIVERSARY
July 4, 2026: Yesterday, in honor of the 250th anniversary of the United States of America, I ventured out into the heat dome to watch the Parade of Sail, beautiful Class B ships from around the world sailing down the East River in New York City. It warmed My heart to see how many people were as excited as I to join together to recognize and celebrate our wonderful country. It didn't take long, however, for people to display their phone screens showing the temperature at 100 degrees (38C). Combined with the humidity, the "feels like" temperature was around 107F. Since I am working My way through a backlog of e-mail, and the heat was exhausting, I headed back to My dungeon to do administrative work.
This morning, the 4th of July, instead of heading outside to view the magnificent Parade of Tall Ships -- more than 30 tall ships from around the world sailing up the Hudson River -- I opted to watch on TV. I missed the enthusiasm, camaraderie, and patriotism of being amongst people, but I did see the spectacular ships and aircraft “up close” and I learned quite a bit about the different ships and their countries of origin. I was also elated, touched, and a bit surprised to see how many countries showed up for us to celebrate this significant milestone considering the recent lack of respect shown to our allies by some in our country.
I hope everyone enjoys and reflects upon this special anniversary, and be careful with yourself and your pets in the heat.
Finally -- buzz kill alert -- as fun and exciting as fireworks can be, please keep in mind that they are not good for pets, wildlife, the environment, or some people with PTSD.
June 2026
BACK IN NYC
June 29, 2026: I am back in New York City after several weeks of travel for sessions and Inana FemDom Retreat. My schedule is full and so is My inbox. I will be catching up on e-mail this week and I will post some pictures as soon as I can.
UPCOMING SCHEDULE
June 10, 2026: My schedule is completely booked through June 29, 2026, including attending Inana FemDom Retreat. I will not be checking e-mail regularly during this time. I will respond to legitimate messages as soon as I can. However, I have already fallen behind on e-mail and it is unlikely anyone will hear from Me before June 26. Your patience is truly appreciated.
May 2026
HOTMAIL PROBLEM and MISTRESS TISSA
May 26, 2026: For some reason, most of My replies to people with Hotmail e-mail addresses are bouncing back to Me. This has been happening sporadically for a few weeks, but it has become a more frequent occurrence over the past few days. I am trying to figure out how to resolve the problem, but My schedule is completely full for the next few weeks, so I do not know when it will get corrected. Please keep this in mind if you use Hotmail and you are not hearing back from Me.
In the meantime, everyone should seriously consider switching over to using encrypted e-mail, Proton Mail being the best example I know. I will write more on this when I have time, but you can follow Mistress Tissa of Philadelphia who is working hard to inform and educate everyone, especially the BDSM community, about internet safety and security.
Mistress Tissa also created and maintains BDSMProfessionals where, among other amazing things, she tries to keep abreast of potential scam websites within the FemDom, fetish, and BDSM sphere. There’s more information on FetLife’s BDSMProfessionals group.
30 YEAR ANNIVERSARY (and also 31st anniversary)
May 22, 2026: One of My dearest submissives and I recently celebrated our 30th anniversary together. A healthy FemDom relationship is quite special; to have one that thrives for so long is truly precious.
It was also recently My 31st anniversary for doing professional FemDom and BDSM sessions.
TRAVELING FOR SESSIONS
May 1, 2026: My friends, submissives and masochists in Europe, who I have spoken with over the past year, have no interest in visiting the United States at this time. I am in the fortunate position of being able to visit Europe to see these wonderful individuals for sessions and spending special time together, which is what I have been doing, along with enjoying chocolate in various forms.
April 2026
Onyx Pendant and Schedule
April 16, 2026: As usual, I have lots to share, but no time to write. As a little treat for My loyal readers and submissives, I have posted a picture of Me wearing a stunning onyx pendant that My dear pet gave Me.
I will be traveling quite a bit for sessions in the coming weeks, so I will be extra slow with e-mail for a while, too.
March 2026
March 13, 2026: Lots going on:
AI Nightmare and Missing E-mails:
I really want to focus on sessions. However, apparently almost everything has been turned over to AI software in recent weeks and nothing "technology," in My experience, has been working without glitches. To heap onto the frustration pile, it has suddenly become almost impossible to reach a human for help at some companies, even after spending multiple hours circling in the AI phone and chat loops.
One of the issues plaguing My daily routine of late is "missing" e-mails, both to and from Me. My e-mail service was inexplicably down for four nonconsecutive days over the past month. While it has since been working as expected for the most part, e-mails are still, occasionally, "vanishing." I eventually realize that a sent e-mail has disappeared, but I do not know how many, if any, missing e-mails I do not know about. Please keep this in mind when communicating with Me.
My Photographer:
I recently learned that My photographer passed away last summer. This was shocking and very sad news for Me. I had been trying to reach him for a few months to book a shooting. His lack of response was unusual, and concern was creeping in, but I knew that he maintained a full schedule and was probably very busy. Because of his relatively young age (50’s), active life, and the fact that he sounded good the last time we communicated, reading the message that he had unexpectedly died caught Me off guard and left Me stunned. More heart-wrenching is that I do not have his legal name, which he did not use for his FemDom photo shootings, so I cannot look up his obituary. His partner was kind to let Me know of his passing, but that's all the information I got. Short and to the point with no other details.
Along with grieving, I am in the process of looking for a trustworthy and talented photographer. It may be a while before I have new professional pictures to share, but I will try to get some snapshots posted as I finish rebuilding My website.
Social Media:
I am not a fan of social media for several reasons. One being that I do not like to give free content to billionaires. In 2016, I begrudgingly created an account on Twitter (now X) to try and direct traffic to My website. I will admit, it has resulted in Me connecting with a few wonderful submissives/masochists/clients. The numerous problems with Twitter/X, though, have only increased with the current owner, everything from consistent technical malfunctions to hateful, and misogynistic, content; the list is lengthy. My relatively tame account was suspended once and has been censored a few times, which is curious coming from someone who touts "freedom of speech." In or around January, twitter started shutting down ProDomme and adult-content websites without notice. I am prepared for My account to be closed at any moment. In the meantime, as I ponder what I want to do with My twitter account, My profile is going to simply sit there, as a sort of placeholder I suppose, with hope that My account handle will not be hijacked by an unscrupulous human or AI bot.
I do have a profile on Bluesky, although I do not think it is much better than twitter in most respects. Not that I want to use other social media platforms, but, if I did, I would not be allowed as a professional Dominatrix because that violates their Terms of Service (ToS). Instagram deleted My account before I made a single post because I am a “Professional Dominatrix.” In case you are unaware, ProDommes, along with all adult-industry professionals, are censored and discriminated against not only in the real world but also on almost all online platforms and by every payment processor.
The United States and The World:
As much as I want to keep it about exquisite torture and gleeful sadism here, I cannot not acknowledge the terrible things that are happening in My beloved country and the impact that our actions, good and bad, have on the World. Horrifying and irreversible damage has been done and is continuing to happen. The list is long and it is too much to dig into here, aside from the fact that My "updates" page is not where people come to find in-depth reporting and fact-filled information about global events and matters.
Therefore, a few thoughts on just one of multitudinous issues for now:
How many victims (women, girls, and boys) of rape, human trafficking, and any other form of abuse have to come forward for people to believe that the offender is a rapist and sexual predator? Why is one victim not enough?
When will rapists, pedophiles, and sexual predators be routinely investigated and held accountable for their crimes without their victims being blamed, shamed, and re-victimized? I mean prison time, not just “stepping down” from esteemed position(s).
It is sickening and infuriating that Epstein and his accomplices were not and have not been fully investigated for decades and that the related files, videos, evidence, etc., are still being mishandled and hidden. Why are the perpetrators being protected?
Recent Sessions:
Finally, on an upbeat note, below are some pictures from the intense, transportive, and overwhelmingly enjoyable time I and My submissives, masochists, and fetishists spend together in My dungeon.
A proper greeting
Bound shoe fetishist
Tea Service in My Dungeon
subject is prepared for a night in My cage
My leather sling provides numerous opportunities
Marks on whipped back
Testing new leather body harness from Sally's Toy Box
One of My favorite clamps
A very appreciative stocking fetishist
February 2026
Busy Busy Busy
February 10, 2026: There is a lot to write about, so much so that I have no time to sit and type it all out. I will try to get an "update" posted within the next two weeks. For now, I am rebuilding the Stories section of My website.
January 2026
Happy New Year!
January 1, 2026: All the best to everyone and may we all practice and experience peace and goodwill.
November 2025
The Holiday Season
November 26, 2025: I have been, and will be, traveling for sessions through the end of the year, including a session in Colorado pictured here. I am barely getting to the computer during My travels, so there is not much happening with rebuilding the reminder of My website for the time being. Although, I have been able to accomplish some behind-the-scenes work on it.
This holiday season, I am fortunate in many ways and there is much for which I am thankful and grateful. I wish this was the situation for everybody. I also wish for everyone a happy and healthy holiday season.
September 2025
Revamped Website
September 27, 2025: I have executed a soft launch of My revamped website. The bulk of it is completed, but there are some unfinished areas, including this "Updates" section. I will continue to work on it until the rebuild is finished. Much of the work will be behind-the-scenes, but you should see small changes and additions on a regular basis during coming months.
For most of 2025, I have been rebuilding My website on a different software platform. One of the primary goals of this project has been to modernize many of the website parts you don’t see and to make it easier to update and alter My website going forward. The public facing part of My website has been refreshed with new graphics and should also work better on mobile devices and tablets. The previous version of My website included 12 years of “Updates” which have not been rebuilt yet. Their reconstruction will be a major undertaking that I will work on as time allows.
My website does not include a membership area and I do not anticipate adding one in the future. In-person sessions, whether for hours or days, in My personal dungeon and around the world, remains My passion. This website provides detailed guidance to those who have a complimentary need for in-person training, service, and BDSM and FemDom engagement.
As a private person who lives this lifestyle on both a professional and personal level, this website offers a small window into My life as a professional Dominatrix in NYC. It is also a glimpse of what awaits the careful applicant when they become a member of my stable.
July 2025
MISS GREY FROM SAN FRANCISCO
July 23, 2025: I had a wonderful visit with Miss Grey from San Francisco this week. She toured My dungeon and we brainstormed scenarios for upcoming adventures with a few worthy and very fortunate submissives.
Also, I'm still working away on rebuilding My website. Unless something crazy happens, which it could, I should be able to publish My revamped website in September 2025.
June 2025
MY FEMDOM RETREAT IN ITALY
June 26, 2025: Inana FemDom Retreat 2025 with Anne O Nomis in Sardinia, Italy was wonderful! Now I am back in NYC and focused again fully on rebuilding My website.