Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)

Where are you located, Mistress Troy?

Upper East Side of Manhattan, New York City, United States of America. For more information about My location, see Session Details.

Is it a private Dungeon?

Yes. It is completely Mine. I do not share or rent out My dungeon space. For more information, see Dungeon & BDSM Equipment.

What is your Tribute?

My Tribute is at the high end of the range for sessions with a professional Dominatrix.  This reflects my experience, skill, the high caliber of equipment I use and maintain and the professionalism, discretion and privacy I can provide in my exclusive dungeon on the Upper East Side of Manhattan in New York City.

My exact Tribute structure cannot be found on this website. You must send the proper "Introduction E-mail" to receive that information. Read Our First Session for details.

Can I/we rent your dungeon?

No. Even though I clearly state that My dungeon is not available to rent, I still receive requests.  My dungeon is not a rental venue.  It is My personal space that I use daily for My own BDSM sessions and office.  If something changes, I will update My website.

What forms of payment/tribute do you accept?

I accept cash, U.S. postal money orders, credit cards, and one online payment processor.  For details, see Payment Options.

Do you sell videos of yourself or do do webcam sessions?

No. I only offer in-person sessions and phone sessions.

I am new to BDSM and have never served a Dominatrix before, will you see me?

Yes, if you are genuine and can follow My instructions. Learn about Me, and what is expected of you, by reading My website. Start with My About page, then How to Choose and Make an Appointment with A Professional Dominatrix, and go from there.

How do I book a session with you?

For a first-time session with Me, go to Our First Session, read it, and follow the instructions. For returning clients, read Returning Clients and follow the instructions. For general guidelines on choosing and booking a session with a professional Dominatrix, read: How to Choose and Make an Appointment with A Professional Dominatrix.

Do you offer same-day sessions?

No, not for first-time sessions with Me. If I know and enjoy you, you may ask. However, My Calendar fills up quickly and it is extremely rare that I will be available on the same day. My time is a rare gift I give you. Plan accordingly.

How much notice do you need to book a session?

As much notice as possible. If you have a proven record of reliability, 24 hours might occasionally work. I maintain a full stable of submissives and clients, and I schedule personal and professional engagements weeks-to-months in advance. The more notice when booking, the better.

Can I send/give you something to read?

Possibly, with prior permission and Tribute for My time if it is longer than two average-length paragraphs. BUT, while I enjoy and use the insight I gain from reading My subjects' writings and stories, I barely have time to read the scheduling-related e-mails I receive on a daily basis, therefore I have to specifically schedule time to read anything extra you wish to send Me. Depending on the length and/or number of writings you wish to send, financial compensation or a gift from My Gift List will be expected. Additionally, the writings should be in an easy-to-read format.

How tall are you?

5' 8" (172 cm.) in bare feet.

What do you like, Mistress Troy?

First and foremost, I like it when you follow My instructions, and obey My rules and commands. This makes Me extremely happy and it should be the simplest thing for a submissive -- or anyone who wishes to see Me -- to do. Yet it is often the most difficult task for even the sincerest subject to accomplish. Once you make your way to My feet, I like to tie you up (or not) and do whatever I want. To learn more about Me and everything else I enjoy, read My website.

What do you dislike?

See Taboo for this information.

Do you see couples?

No, only individuals. I will update this answer if the situation changes.

Do you offer extended and overnight sessions?

Yes. See Extended & Overnight Sessions.

Do you offer phone sessions?

Yes. See Phone Sessions.

Will you meet me for lunch, dinner, a drink, or social time?

If I do not know you, no. If I do know you, possibly, given we have a long-term or consistent and clearly established Dominant/submissive relationship. Tribute is required for My time, and a discreet physical "reminder" of your position will be engaged while we are in public together.

Do you travel for sessions?

Yes, I travel to -- and with -- worthy submissives and subjects for BDSM sessions and related adventures, but only under very specific conditions. I do not tour (travel a circuit of cities where I book multiple sessions per day during a short visit). You can find more detail on My Session Details page.

How do you clean your equipment?

The answer to this question is at the bottom of Dungeon & BDSM Equipment, under "CLEANING AND CARE."

Can I be your personal slave or houseboy?

When a ProDomme is asked this question, it is interpreted as: "Can I have free sessions?" and will usually be ignored. If you want free sessions and "playtime," the answer is: No. I am not currently in need of another personal slave or houseboy.  I may update this information in 2026.